Hey there and welcome to my blog again, then again I receive another Interesting topic started up of generalization or stereotyping, whatever it is it begins with this " 'Marrying Money' is the young women, older man... "
'Marrying Money' is the young women, older man prefers 'Young Maidens' for themselves. If we look through this matter in a stereotypical way we can see clearly that young women just wanted the money in the older guy in a Porsche while that older guy wanted the pleasures of having that young woman in his life. However if we look into this matter with a sense of generalization this is merely a coincidence, in societies not every older man prefers young women due to the fact that they are immature, childish and sometimes dumb which then they prefer an older women that are more subtle and understanding. Some women prefers younger man because of the same belief that both of them are having in terms of lifestyle, business etc.
On the contrary however, societies may still prefer younger women to be their wife-to-be for an older man and men prefer due to several reasons. An excerpt from "How to Date Young Women" by R. Don Steele mentions that older man are more mature, understanding and are committed to a longer relationship and not just a factor of money or any other financial interest. Older woman would prefer young woman because young women are obedient, loyal and even though childish they are somewhat entertained with young woman to make their life colourful in a way or another.
In conclusion that belief that women are gold diggers towards older man are not necessary a truth. People have different reasons to choose the partners they like and happiness does not stems from money, but more onto commitments and objectives one pursue in life.
-Thank You-
References:
http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith/21_dating_advice.html
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/carmelia-ray/older-men-dating-younger-women-whats-it-all-about
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